I MADE A SIMILAR POST LIKE THIS A YEAR AND A HALF AGO (ON MY SPACE AND MY FRIENDSTER ACCOUNT)WHEN ME AND GARY WAS JUST STARTING AS A COUPLE. AS I HAVE KNOWN HIM MORE, I HAVE GROWN TO LOVE HIM MORE. THIS GUY NEVER FAILS TO AMAZE ME. THIS MADE ME FEEL STRONG ABOUT THE BELIEF THAT THIS MAN IS MY "THE ONE". I REMEMBER MY PROFILE ON FILIPINA HEART.COM (THE SITE WHICH GAVE US THE OPPORTUNITY TO MEET AND TALK), THERE WAS A PORTION IN THERE WHICH ASKED WHAT QUALITIES IN A GUY WAS I LOOKING FOR AND REVIEWING ALL THAT, HE IS EXACTLY THAT PERSON.THE LIST HERE MIGHT HAVE CHANGED AS COMPARED FROM MY PREVIOUS ONE, FOR THE REASON THAT I GOT TO KNOW THE DEEPER SIDE OF HIM.
1. HE ALWAYS HAVE A POSITIVE OUTLOOK ON THINGS, EVEN THOUGH HE SAYS THAT HE MOANS A LOT. HE SEES A GLASS HALF FULL AND NOT HALF EMPTY.I HAVE SEEN THIS CHARACTER WHEN HE WAS MADE REDUNDANT FROM HIS WORK (WELL, HE WAS SURPRISED AND UPSET BY THIS) BUT AFTER A WHILE HE MADE REALIZATIONS THAT THIS WAS AN OPPORTUNITY FOR CHANGE. I DID ADMIRE HIM FOR THAT.
2. HE MADE A WAY TO REACH OUT TO MY FAMILY. MY FAMILY IS A BIG PART OF ME, WITHOUT THEM AND THEIR UNENDING SUPPORT I WOULDN'T BE THE PERSON THAT I AM NOW AND SO AS A PART OF MY CRITERIA A GUY WHO SHOULD BE WITH ME HAS TO GET ALONG WITH MY FAMILY . GARY ON HIS 2ND VISIT HERE MADE AN EFFORT OF SPENDING TIME WITH THEM. HE THREW OUT A SWIMMING PARTY AND THIS MADE ME REALLY REALLY HAPPY. MY PARENTS LIKE HIM ESPECIALLY MY MOM WHO HAD CALLED HIM SON AND MY COUSINS WHO HAD A GOOD IMPRESSION ON HIM.
3. HE INCLUDES ME ON HIS PLANS FOR THE FUTURE AND I LOVE HEARING THAT FROM HIM.
4. HE HAS THIS WAY OF MAKING ME FEEL LOVED EVEN FROM A DISTANCE
5. HE TALKS ABOUT ME WITH HIS FRIENDS AND IT MAKES ME FEEL THAT HE IS PROUD OF ME( AND I PRETTY LIKE THAT! HAHAHA)
6. HE ALSO MADE AN EFFORT ON MEETING MY FRIENDS. I SEE HOW GOOD HE IS WITH PEOPLE, ON THE WAY HE TREATS THEM (ONE EXAMPLE IS THE STAFF OF SEA DIVE IN CORON WHERE WE STAYED DURING OUR HOLIDAY. HE SEEMED LIKE HE WAS A FAVORITE GUEST PROBABLY BECAUSE HE TREATED THEM WELL AND BECAME FRIENDS WITH THEM)
7. HE IS POINTING ME TO THE RIGHT DIRECTION WHAT EVER IT MIGHT BE, CAREER MOVES, PLANS FOR THE FUTURE AND OTHER DECISION MAKING. HE ALWAYS MAKE SENSE.
8. I KNOW AND SURE THAT I ALWAYS HAVE HIS SUPPORT. HE CHEERS ME UP ON A BAD DAY (THAT IS WHEN MY CONSULTANTS ARE GIVING ME A HARD TIME OR MY CLERKS ARE GIVING ME HEADACHES).
9. HE BELIEVES IN ME EVEN WHEN I THINK THAT I AM NOT GOOD ENOUGH. HE HAS FAITH IN ME AND THE THINGS I COULD DO.
10. HE JUST LOVED ME THE WAY I AM NO IFS NOT BUTS (NOW THIS IS MAKING ME TEARY!)
Babe, I am not sure whether to comment here or on FaceBook where more people can see it, but your post today brought tears to my eyes, I am sniffing them back as I write this. You make me whole, I have been looking for someone like you all my life (even when I wasn't looking!!). I love you and your comments here show how much you return that love. I especially like the fact that your family have accepted me, despite the physical distance between us and our enforced separation for the next couple of years until we can get everything sorted out for our future.
ReplyDeleteThank you again for your very kind words, knowing how you feel keeps me positive, as despite what you say, it is only with your support and that of my friends that I have kept my sunny outlook!!!